Greased, someone can't "teach" you how to drive a stick. It's one of those things where you just have to take the car out by yourself and teach yourself to drive it. When I was young, both my mom and dad tried to teach me how to drive it, and I thought I'd never learn how. But dad gave me the keys to his 1980 Plymount Champ one day and told me to learn how to drive it, and I did......in just two days AND without ripping out the clutch!